It can be one of the most daunting yet exciting moments in your life, but popping the question doesn’t have to be something you are fearful of. You want this to be one of the most memorable and special occasions that you and your loved one will never forget, and as such, you need to put some careful planning into how you are going to ask your partner to take your hand in marriage. This article will offer some helpful tips to ease your nerves ahead of the proposal and highlight some of the things you need to consider ahead of time.
Is it the right time?
One of the first, and most important, things you need to think about before you decide to propose is the timing. This doesn’t just apply to the proposal itself, but rather if it is the right time for you and your loved one to embark on this new, exciting chapter together.
Although you will want the proposal to be a surprise, you need to make sure that you and your partner have openly discussed what you both want from your relationship in the future, and that marriage is something that you are both looking for down the line. You want to be on the same wavelength and have an idea about your future that perfectly aligns. Once you are secure in the knowledge that you and your partner are clear on where you want your relationship to go, you can start thinking about planning the proposal.
Public or private?
Where you choose to get down on one knee and propose should be determined by what sort of people you and your partner are and your personalities. If your partner is shy or introverted, they may not appreciate a grand show of public affection. Similarly, if you and your partner are happy being the centre of attention, you could think about planning a proposal in a public place that means a lot to you both, like where you shared your first kiss or went on your first date.
Choosing the perfect ring
Without making it very obvious, try and sneak a look at the jewellery your partner normally wears and this will give you a better idea of what sort of engagement ring would be the perfect fit for their personality and style.
Once you have an idea of what sort of ring they would like, you can go looking around jewellers to find the perfect one, or even consider getting one specially made to show them just how much you care.
Make the most of this special moment
You want the proposal to be a memory that you both cherish for the rest of your lives, so consider ways to make the entire day a special event, without giving the game away that you are planning on getting down on one knee. You could spend the day doing your favourite activities or go on a short romantic getaway to one of your favourite places where you can enjoy time just the two of you and after the proposal toast to this new exciting chapter in your lives together.
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